Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

While going through some paperwork, I found an envelope my husband had hidden that contained nude photos of him and another woman from 30 years ago. Somehow, it's my fault and he won't apologize. Advice?

While looking for a tax document, I found a manila envelope that had a note written on the outside. It said, “If something happens to me, please destroy this, because I don’t want to hurt anyone.” I opened the envelope and found nude pictures of my husband and another woman taken 30 years ago.

I have been married for 52 years. While looking for a tax document, I found a manila envelope that had a note written on the outside. It said, “If something happens to me, please destroy this, because I don’t want to hurt anyone.

"When I confronted my husband, he said it happened a long time ago and it’s my fault for opening the envelope."

I found a manila envelope that had a note written on the outside. It said, “If something happens to me, please destroy this, because I don’t want to hurt anyone.”

That your husband wouldn’t offer an apology only adds insult to injury. What a fool. He left a “time bomb” and didn’t have enough common sense to consider what would happen if, after his death, you or your children sifted through his souvenirs.